Ok...maybe I'm just a little crazy here...I need guidance!
For the third time in just a few months I've been told by a woman that I was "too easy to love".
Not a bad thing right? Most would consider this is a compliment. Well, I would think so too...
Oh but wait...what if I told you that the women that have told me this were my EX's?
Doesn't sound much like a compliment, now does it?
Basically this is the number one reasons I've been given as to why a few of my relationships had ended (from way back to Crystal...to as recent as Fairmont).
Are they flipping mad? I mean honestly! I'm SO SORRY I wasn't the cheating, beating, drug using, and no job bums that these women were used to dating. And in most cases those girls are back to dating the same guys that they trashed talked, told me they hated, would never be with again in a million years, etc., etc. etc.
So these women, all of whom I treated great and would've given the world, didn't like what I had to offer at the time because "too easy to love" was just TOO EASY for them I guess??? So they go back to their jerks...and then after I move on, I start hearing from them again.
Wonderful...Do I really look like a DOORMAT?
I know what's going on here...these women realize that they let something good pass through their fingers and now they are hoping to get another glimpse. Or maybe, they are just looking for another few weeks of feeling special again, and then they'll go back to their jerks. But momma didn't raise no fool...fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!
To all of my women friends out there...please don't male bash in front of me anymore. I mean, look at what I've been going through over the last few years! These women are driving me crazy. Should I just go into perpetual bachelor mode? Just have my fun with them when they are looking to be put up on that pedestal again?
This isn't what I've been about...I've been looking for Mrs. Right now for like 8 years. I know as soon as I go into bachelor mode, Mrs. Right will come in and I won't even notice her.
But how do I work on NOT being "too easy to love"?
Do I really want too???
I will be very interested in comments to this post...please feel free!!! ;-)
it is fucked up.... you see they were immature and insecure. they wanted the guy who treated them like a princess all the while still in love with the asshole. hoping that being with you would maybe open dickheads eyes. a big majority of women are fucked up like this.
ReplyDeleteu were the i'm tired of being treated this way and everyone says i deserve better and i do type situation. the i will show that asshole. and just when they start to have true feelings they have to make sure of no longer having feelings for said asshole. so they go back and the cycle starts all over again, self sabotage.
WHY??? well they are used to the "honeymoon" phase of their relationships. they never have matured into a healthy relationship bc they are always breaking up and fighting with their partner thus repeating the cycle. Some never mature and others do after they are removed from it or have someone truly step in(not a romantic someone) or something major happens.
I think this recent girl still really luvs u she just has baggage that has 2 be taken care of. If u really luv her go get her! Dnt try 2 chnge urself. U sound like u luv each other so much,hav great conversation,extremely atrracted 2 each other,mesh well not 2 mention the best mind blowing sex either of u hav ever had! Most partners dnt have 2 of these in their relationship so i say go 4 her! It sounds like it's meant 2 b. I c u being extremely happy in the near future so dnt b dwn! She will get her shit taken care of and prove urself 2 u so just b patient bc luv like that is hard 2 find! PEACE LUV AND HAPPINESS!! TWILIGHT
ReplyDeleteDecember 27, 2009 11:58 PM
Wow, I think you sound like a bias opinion, Twilight. First let me start by saying Jr you are FUCKING stupid if you go back with what was it "crazy bitch"....(scrolling to look) Fairmount. Just look at the fuck ups she did. Most important catching her at her babies daddy house... come on.
ReplyDeleteAs for the comment.... "U sound like u luv each other so much,hav great conversation,extremely atrracted 2 each other,mesh well not 2 mention the best mind blowing sex either of u hav ever had! Most partners dnt have 2 of these in their relationship so i say go 4 her! It sounds like it's meant 2 b"........ Now as a sane adult I have a BIG problem with this statment. An ADULT relationship(You are an adult right) is built on trust. You are missing that MASSIVE ingredient in a relationship if you don't have that. Basically you sound to be establishing a relationship on a pure physical level. Not something that is meant to be forever last on that alone. Sure you have great convo and mesh well... but you can have that with anyone you actually are in love with. Otherwise you wouldn't be together.
As for having baggage, everyone has baggage. How you react with the baggage shows how you feel. Regardless of it being an action of your past it still holds to your current relationships. Having someone that you "love" catch you at ur so called ex's is a cold stab in the back... well heart. Only emotionless, insecure, unhealthy relationships are built on everything that seems to embody this crazy Fairmount chick. I say run and run away as fast as your long legs can go. And ignore the crazy rambling of Twilight because she sounds like the chicks I was talking about in my 1st comment. And the ones I told you about making me wanna smack a hoe in our text. OMG.. Jr...