Update - Days of my life...

Okay, so I've been debating on how I was going to approach this subject...I've decided that honesty is the best policy. So a few blog posts back you'll remember me talking about the days of my life, about me not knowing what was wrong with me, why I was the "Good Luck Chuck" of Parkersburg. Well, I guess it wasn't as bad as I thought... I got into to D.C. on Saturday night and was just chilling in my room, I had to work a very long day on Sunday. I got a text message from an unknown number asking me if I wanted to hear/read something funny. I responded that I wanted to know who this person was first. The response - "fairmont girl". You see, when I break up or am broken up with someone - I remove all of their contact info - this prevents any drunk texting or calling. Now you can just imagine all the things that were rushing through my head...the two prominent options were: 1. She's prego and texting me to tell me that I'm going to be a daddy (which wasn't going to go over well because she told me she went back to her EX) 2. She was texting me to tell me that her and her EX didn't work out and was wanting to start something back up with me (which wasn't going to happen - I'm not a rebound guy) But luckily it wasn't option 1, and option 2 never really was in the equation. SO.....why was she contacting me after almost a month???? Well...she never actually went back to her EX. Why tell me that she did? She was angry with me. She thought that I had given her an STD. She was trying to buy herself time until she could get tested and then confront me with the results. So three weeks later and the results were in...I didn't give her anything (I don't have anything to give). She had a birth control implant that had been moved (partly my fault [;-)]) and it caused her some pain and discomfort that mimicked some kind of STD. So all was forgiven by her - even though I didn't do anything! ;-) Yet I had to spend three weeks wondering what I had did wrong, why I was always driving women back to their EXs, and basically what was wrong with me! She has promised to make it up to me and not to lie to me again. She is still interested in seeing where our relationship could go and honestly so am I. I had already assumed that it wasn't going to go anywhere, so basically it will be like we are starting over. As my top friend said - "Only you Jr, Only you!" And she's right...this is a situation that COULD only happen to ME. I'm saving all this information for when they turn my life into a SOAP OPERA. ;-) So, again, "Like Sands Through The Hour Glass, So Are the Days of MY life." Thanks for reading!!!

30 before 30

Ok....TODAY is a big day for me!!! Maybe the best so far this year!!! You may remember a few months ago I starting running and dieting. No, I wasn't fat...I just didn't like the way I looked anymore. Plus I was starting to carry around a small keg in my belly. LOL When I turned 29 (January) I was the heaviest I had ever been in my life and I was NOT happy about it. I tipped the scales at 223, which yes, isn't that bad for someone 6'-2" but I could be considered over-weight. So in February I started busting my ass on the treadmill...and cutting WAY back on all the bad foods. Well today is the day that has made it ALL worth it! This morning, I weighed in at 193 pounds! A FULL 30 pounds lighter in just 5 months!!! That's a 13.5% drop in body weight! I am SO excited! My energy level is up! I'm more confident about the way I look. Life is SO good right now! It feels so good to set a goal and reach it. And I did it 100% honest! No pills, crazy diets, just hard work and cutting back on the sweets. Now it's time to set a new goal. I'm thinking 185 pounds is my new target weight. After that I'm going to start working out and toning up. I still don't have the six-pack that I wanted, but at least the keg is gone! LOL I'll keep you posted!

Nothing new

Hey there everybody.

It's been awhile since I've posting anything, I thought I should get on here and check in with everyone. I hope all is well with each and everyone of you.

Nothing really new going on in my life...and no women to complain about - can you believe it??? lol

I've finally gotten all the bad women out of my life and out of my head...it feels pretty good to just chill out now. No drama!

I've been really busy at work lately, which is making this month fly by for me. I'll be heading back to D.C. this Saturday for an entire week up there! I don't mind going up there. It's good to see some new sights and eat at new places.

I've really been debating about seriously looking for a job up there. I have nothing left to tie me to this town. If I were to go up there for 1 year, I could some back here and add a substantial amount of money to my pay check. All I have to do is 1 year in Hell...lol.

Another reason is that my buddy Keven tells me that the women up there are completely opposite of the scene down here. He said that it's RARE to find a woman under 30 that HAS A KID! Everyone up there is focusing on their careers, so most of them haven't had children yet. So moving to D.C. might be my best shot of finding my 'soul-mate'...yeah right! I know, I was just kidding.

But it wouldn' t be a bad thing to leave town for awhile. I always said I was back home to stay. But if I could better my life both financially and socially just by moving to D.C. for 1 year, why shouldn't it? IDK...time will tell. I'll be dropping hints to some of the big wigs up in D.C. while I'm up there! lol

I'm sure I'll post again when I get up there!

Take care everyone!

Days of my life...

Okay as promised - here's my 'Days of our Lives' story: Some of you make know that two weekends ago I went up to Fairmont and spent an awesome weekend with girl I had met the weekend before that. We had a really good time and I thougt things could get serious. On July 4th she was suppose to come down and go four wheeler riding with me and my friends from PA. Well all day Friday I was getting blown off by this girl. This isn't my first rodeo, I knew what was going on. On Saturday I didn't even try to call or text her. My friends had driven all the way from PA - 8 hour trip - to have a good time. I was going to make sure they did. Around 2, when I hit Grantsville, my cell phone when crazy with text messgaes from her. She was going back to her ex - yada yada yada. Same old story - just change the main characters. I didn't respond to her until I got back on Sunday. I really wanted to know WTF was going on with me! Am I the Dane Cook of P-burg? If you haven't seen Good Luck Chuck or My Best Friends Girl - then you won't get that joke. But honestly - that's how I feel. Either I date a girl and she RUNs back to her EX or they find Mr. Right-after-Me and get married. Maybe I should start charging for my services. This shit is getting really old. Anyway - said girl tried the normal lines - not you, it's me. I was supposedly perfect, not like the asshole she went back to that only made time to see her once a year! I'm not joking! She said the last time she seen him was in April of 2008! So someone else will have to explain that one to me. When I was being an ass with my responses to her - she even commented "Don't do that! We had a connection and I know you felt it!". OMG! And WTF! She must think I'm going to play her games or beg for her like jackass was. Nope! I will beg for no one. So - another one bites the dust. Good bye yet another twisted bitch! There I feel better now! ;-) You would think that I would be getting used to this by now, maybe a few more and I will. ;-( So in closing - "Like sands thru the hour glass, so our the days of our lives!" Take care!

DC so far...

Well my trip to DC has been good thus far. I took off from P-burg around 7 am yesterday and had a pretty non-eventful drive. I was even able to squeeze in a little shopping at the Prime Outlet malls in Hagerstown I love hitting the Hager store there to stock up on business casual attire. Also made a trip into the Sketcher store. I made it into DC around 1 and got checked into my hotel. I had to go into the office for a few hours. Around 4:30 I was back in my hotel and, though I was extremely tired, convinced myself to go and run in the gym there. I managed to push myself harder than I ever have - I ran faster and longer than ever before! Some of that has to do with my current anger/frustration build up...more on that in another post. After my run I really wasn't ready to go back to my room, so I went for a walk. I really haven't seen many of the DC sights since I visited here in 5th grade. I walked about 5 files around town - I got picks of the Washington Monument, the State Capital, Museum of Natural History, and few others I can't remember. Today was a full day of work. I got off at the same time as yesterday and pushed myself to repeat my run like yesterday. Man am I sore - but hey, it's helping with the feelings I mentioned earlier. They have a pool next to the gym, so after running I took a quick shower to rinse off then swam and relaxed for about 30 mins. Back to the room to shower, and now I'm on my way to Crystal City mall to stop by the Apple Store, Best Buy, Virgini Tobacco Company, and whatever else cool store catches my eye. I'm REALLY looking forward to drinking a beer while I wait for my pizza at California Pizza Place! If you've never had one of their pizzas, then you're missing out. Tomorrow is work as normal. I probably won't get into too much at night. Same goes for work on Thursday. However, Thursday evening I'm meeting up with an old Army buddy of mine for dinner and drinks. His wife is out of town this week so who knows where we'll end up before the night is through! Let's hope I get some pictures - no matter what I get in to!!! ;-) Well, I'm at my stop now. I promise to work on the other post that I mentioned on my train ride back. Thanks for reading. Hope all is well with you!!!